Loving yourself unconditionally possesses you with the strength and ability to love another in the same manner.
It Will Help You Rid Yourself Of Toxic Relationships: Sometimes, the concept of unconditional love is mistaken as an excuse for getting hurt or falling for the wrong people. When there is disloyalty and hurt involved, your commitments to love unconditionally should not be extended because you love yourself enough to not undergo this form of torture. The amount of pleasure you can acquire from giving yourself (and other) unconditional love is paramount.
It Will Arm You With The Power To Say No: Unconditionally loving yourself will give you the force you need to say ‘No’ and make the right choices. It also allows you to understand that the right partner is worth the wait and being by yourself is in no manner degrading or an assessment of your achievements in life.
It Fosters Security And Positivity: Unconditional love can provide a heightened sense of security and comfort, that is an incredible catalyst for confidence. Remember acceptance? This is a strong part of being secure – knowing that you are spreading and receiving love not because of your perfections, but because of you as a whole. The feeling of positivity that one takes from this is armor – resilience against tough times, resilience in the face of failure to get up again, and resilience against mental health disorders.
It Encourages Understanding: When you are clear about the love and the message that you are sending out in the universe, you KNOW where you stand. You KNOW the value of that love and yourself. You understand how to separate the wheat from the chaff that comes in from sending this out. There is no one-size-fits-all policy, but when you know what you know, you are blessed with a clairvoyance that no one can take away from you, or the strength you have to understand when a loved one goes wrong.
It Helps You Learn The Art of Forgiveness and Gratuity:
We’ve already covered the fact that Unconditional Love does not mean you become someone else’s doormat. But it also allows you to not sweat the small stuff and let things go. If there’s anything we know, it is that these small things pile up over time into one big hot ball of negativity!
Loving unconditionally helps you respond towards someone instead of blindly reacting in anger. It delivers you a choice on how to act in a situation and accept a person instead of basing their abilities and their humanity on superficial matters like the way they dress or speak. When you beat this, you beat every naysayer in the world. You are no longer at the mercy of ego. Instead, you are a front leader of free will and positive expression.
